Just to point out that you need to be either on 40mhz or 2.4ghz for your radio control (although there is some debate about phasing out 40mhz)

The Spektrum DX5e is a very good package and does what you want it to and comes with the receiver. If you get the DX6I it's also a good package but you'll need to get an AR500 receiver for it.

Andy