Hey there, welcome to the forum!

The ESC you have listed is for a brushless motor whereas the motors you have linked to are both brushed motors. Whilst it is possible to program some brushess ESCs for brushed motors, for a beginner, with either of those motors, I'd get a brushed ESC, say something like this - https://www.ebay.co.uk/itm/RC-10A-ES...G/202542378686 - I use these in one of my Antweights and as a weapon ESC in my Beetleweight.

The batteries, I'd go for the 2nd option as they suit the size of the application that the motors are for (typically, those motors are used in Antweights, same for the 180mAh batteries). The first one is more for the Beetleweight category.

Transmitter/receiver (noting you will need to enable Elevon mixing on the transmitter to enable forwards/backwards/turning motion with both motors/ESCs, which I believe you can do with one of the switches on it), either of the motors (though I'd go more for a 30:1, which is still quick) and the second servo look good for a flipper weapon to me.