Don't be sorry, silly

Mode 1/2 is the way the tx is set up, Mode 2 is most common in Europe, and that has left stick throttle, Mode 1 is aimed at the US boys and is Right stick throttle. Are you on Deviation firmware?

On mine i did; press [ENT] for menu, Op.2 says 'Transmitter Menu', In the 'Transmitter Menu' op. 1 is 'Transmitter Config'... in there is an option to switch the stick mode. (apologies for over simplified explanation, I typed as I went through it)

Only issue now is that your forward/reverse stick has no spring centring... unless you're brave enough to take it apart and swap the springy bit over...

Hope this helps!!